It seems like we are living in a world where everyone wants emotional connections, but no one actually either knows what that means, or they think they know and are very wrong. All they know is that they are lonely and have needs they can’t fulfill within themselves, and they need to find someone outside of themselves to stop the loneliness.
Category Archives: relationships
Evaluating Feeling
So, me and the potential guy have been talking for a week. I can say that what charm was there is in the wearing off period, and I am now becoming either more critical of things, or I am becoming more realistic. I’m not sure which one, which is why I’m blogging about this. LOL
A Possibility
I’m at the precipice of a potentially new relationship. Wow…that phrase sounds extremely like, “This relationship is only in your head,” doesn’t it? LOL It isn’t in my head, I promise.
Weekend Grab Bag
This weekend was such a mixed bag of experiences. Saturday was exceptionally cram packed and honestly, I took a full Sunday to recover and kind of wish I had given myself today to fully get back to myself.
To Better Friends
Have you ever just written someone off? Like, a longtime friend that you’ve talked to for a long time, and then you wake up and realize, “Wow…The only person we talk about is you. Your situations, your events, your sexual whatevers, your philosophy, etc. 95% of the conversations we have are about you and I’m kind of tired of hearing about you.”?
The Importance of Integrity
The problem when you discover someone lacks, or something has been cobbled together with no integrity is that you never get the ability to fully trust again.
Family Matters
My niece and her husband came up to visit me for the weekend. It was a wonderful time. I was there when my niece was born, and I have tried to be there for her through everything that life brought to both of us. We both have had to deal with the extreme mental dysfunction of our families, so we have a lot that we can relate to each other.
Forlorn
I’ve needed companionship for quite some time now, actually. I need someone who I know is there, whether it’s to be listened to or just hugged, knowing my company is not just wanted, but as equally needed.
Sister Situation
My sister started following Roger’s Instagram.
This sounds like a total non-event. Like, family members should support your endeavors, even the silly ones that have no impact. So it should seem perfectly normal that a family member is following my ridiculously handsome cat’s Insta.
Trying to Heal
I wanted to write a second post on yesterday’s post regarding bullies. I hate writing negative posts and really try to find a positive light at the end, but sometimes, there is just no light at the end of a tunnel. There is no open end of some tunnels.
